6 responses to “Survival Stories 12 and 13 – Laura and Mary #domesticviolence #princecharming”

  1. Persia Karema Avatar

    Reblogged this on Blog Of A Mad Black Woman and commented:
    “I was isolated from family and friends and was made to rely completely on him.” ~ Laura’s Story

    “To the stranger in the street, he was Mr. Charming. Behind closed doors, he was an arsehole.” ~ Mary’s Story

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  2. Persia Karema Avatar

    Mary’s story is heart-breaking.
    Thank you for sharing these stories Paula.

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  3. Persia Karema Avatar

    Oh my… Laura’s Story sent a chill down my spine. I thought I was reading my own 😦
    I wish her well.

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  4. 18mitzvot Avatar
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    Reblogged this on 18mitzvot: Narcissism. Grief. Recovery. Yiddishkeit. and commented:
    Each day during the month of October, column author Paula Carrasquillo will feature a story written by a survivor of domestic violence. At the end of October, a compilation of all stories will be available for free as an e-book.

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  5. 18mitzvot Avatar
    18mitzvot

    From Laura’s story: “To add to my confusion, he would constantly tell me he had no conscience and that I was stronger than he thought.”
    How creepy! My abuser said the same thing to me.

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    1. Paula Avatar

      Textbook! These people are textbook. My ex said to me once, “You think I’m garbage, don’t you? I’m trash to you.” I found it sad that he would even suggest I thought such a thing. Made me feel horrible and wonder to myself what could have happened to him to make him think such things about himself. Today, I understand that the only thing that happened to him was that he was born without a conscience, and he absolutely is trash. I do not and won’t apologize for feeling that way, either. Keeps me shielded from him and others like him.

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